I am a single, well educated, adventurer who is looking for a IN SHAPE, HEALTHY, STABLE woman to rock his world and give him the passion,company,intellectual and emotional connection he needs.
IDEAL RELATIONSHIP
Need a person who has the confidence to maintain a relationship or dating life.- your past experiences don't plague your current experiences, you have reasonable expectations and can handle the ups and downs of emerging friendships. You also need a family that SUPPORTS your social life and does not interfere with it or push their approval on things. You need to know what YOU want from a guy. No drama please.
You don't have to have huge accomplishments- just have a good steady thing that keeps you busy, and an open mind and heart. I am looking for a woman who is able to build a relationship up around outdoor adventure, awesome evenings, workouts, and date nights. I don't mind taking things slow but I am not looking for 19th century dating either- physical connection is important. There has to be mutual attraction and chemistry. I want a woman that takes care of herself. This is someone who really cares about themselves! They also have time for themselves- they have a balanced life. Add an interesting background and unique personality traits, and you will make an exquisite complexity, a beautiful mystery that requires time to unwrap, discover and appreciate. I would rather be mystified than bored... :)
I don't mind crazy, or off kilter, as it adds to the personality. I have dated all kinds, and experienced women with different personal issues and challenges and it never mattered to me as long as they knew how to give and take and chill when things get crazy for them.
I want someone to build a relationship with and not just 'be' in a relationship. It takes effort and you gotta be confident and trust, and really want something to work- its not magic. Relationships are hard- time is spent getting to know each other and seeing what happens! It doesn't always work the way you want, but I appreciate kind hearted effort. I am a brave romantic- I am not afraid to feel strong for someone and will always give my all! I love to share my world with someone special and want to feel the same in their world.
I can never find the perfect match- sexy, athletic and active do not always match up with homemaker and homebody- so I am trying to find a good mixture of both- I love 'bad girls' who dress it up when they need to and be fun and crazy when they want to be themselves. Really want to meet a woman who can be nerdy and geeky, healthy, fit outdoorsey,sexy, and have a real edge- a bite that makes you know she is in control and knows what she is after in a man.
I need someone I can count on for a great dating life, and a great friendship. I want to enjoy a dating life with someone that is balanced and not hampered and cut short because of limits to ones abilities or responsibilities. If you do not have time to really date, then I am not for you. Know your limits.
ME:
I am well built- not perfect but good looking. I am tall, have bright blue eyes, brownish blond hair, and have a good looking German and Scandinavian face. I am youthful, spirited and have a TON of energy. My best qualities are my sense of humor and fast intellect. I love laughing and being quick witted!
Most everyone loves my sense of witty repartee and banter and funny easy going personality- I have a crazy sense of humor that most quick minded folks will get right from the start- it can bite the easily offended. However, my intelligence and big personality are soft when they need to be and I am very easy to have fun with just about anywhere :)
When I am not working and I have time, I work out, and run occasionally. When I am in adventure mode, I love mountaineering, climbing, hiking and camping. When subdued and chilled out, I also love exploring cool historical sites, museums, and other downtown activities. I love nice restaurants, upscale bars and clubs.
I am also a huge movie and book nut, and my interests include Science Fiction, Adventure movies, Comedies, documentaries on Anthropology and Ancient Cultures, Cyberpunk, and anything to do with Religion and Spirituality. I love all types of music. This means bluegrass, country, rock, alternative, techno, industrial, and even classical and jazz.
My work and personal interests are Anthropology, Geography, Biological Sciences, and anything to do with alternative energy and sciences. I think that science and technology, fused with spirituality are very cool things...I do go to church sometimes, and while I am a Christian, I also read and study my heritage and old ways from the past. I have traveled the world, have seen and done many things that are far from ordinary, and have accomplished a lot. I am a very goal oriented person.
Lastly, I am very physical and love a good sexual connection. Being open to new things is critical- I am not for everyone, especially shy types.
WHAT I DO WANT:
Really want to meet someone of similar background- I love fair skin, fair eyes, brown or blonde hair and a clean look- Nothing bohemian. I love women who take care of themselves. I prefer someone who has nice balanced features and a healthy body. I am just NOT attracted to really, really fat and out of shape bodies. Its my biggest issue with POF- so many women don't read profiles and assume that a pretty face on a really, really unhealthy body is somehow going to change my preference to healthy and fit. Its not. I don't ask for perfection but c'mon....
You must be healthy and active- not worried about perfection, just a person who knows what toned muscle is and how a good body feels to the touch- ideally, she works out, watches her diet and takes care of herself. Having a few extra pounds is not a problem- just be active! You gotta love the outdoors, and doing stuff!
I am looking for something similar to myself- healthy, strong, outgoing personality, passionate and you have to have a goal oriented life, and the real need to better one self and others. I love women that are spiritual and know what it means to live in the now and allow their spiritual life free reign in their lives. I love generosity, kindness and a woman who appreciates when she is cared about and returns it just the same.
You should love a good sexual connection- you gotta be up for new things, and love being sexy- its got to be a huge part of your personality- cant stand boring lovers. Crazy, out of this world connection is a must- being a little crazy seems to make this even better- love explorative, soul connecting sexuality. Its got to be tight.
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